Hyat Regency Hotel Kuantan

date : 19 july 2012,
attended birthday party @Bukit Istana Kuantan
disebabkan event abis hampir larut mlm, we all pun check in the nearest hotel by the Telok Cempedak. 

morning view from the room

breakfast @the deli, hotel's coffee house

a must do activity.. swimming / berendam

sedih, hampir terlemas

check out

emma .. strutting her dress

the parents

ikat the kids

@peramu kuantan, makan goreng2 sblm balik

Separation is not an option

Alhamdulillah, dah masuk hari ke6 ramadhan.. belum cuti lg. semoga semua amalan di bulan ini diberkati oleh Nya

Ealier today, a friend of mine break the news that she plan to file a divorced ,..

Berita yg sgt mendukacitakan di bulan yg mulia ni.. I try to convince her to reconsider. What a waste , they are such a sweet couple. Keputusan yg sgt sukar utk kami juga, sbb kami share kelompok kawan yg sama. Pihak mana yg perlu disokong? Siapa pulak yg akan dipulaukan?

“getting married is easy, but staying married is a hardwork”

Rumahtangga mane yg x de masalah kan? Perkahwinan bukanlah suatu yg boleh di lalui sambil lewa. Nak kawin mmg senang, kumpul duit, pergi kursus kawin, pilih tarikh, akad nikah, then its done! Ramai yg mengganggap lepas akad, semua selesai. Sebenarnye ia adalah suatu permulaan utk melalui suatu kehidupan baru. Pilihan kita samada nak enjoy atau sebaliknye. Kerjasama dan tolak ansur sgt penting. We can’t expect our spouse to be perfect , dan menurut semua kehendak kita sbb mereka individu yg berlainan ade pandangan sendiri, dan kita tidak memiliki mereka…

Don’t take it for granted

Ramai yg berharap semuanye sentiasa akan seperti biasa mcm zaman couple2 dulu, tp hakikatnye semuanye akan berubah. Lagi2 bile dah ade anak. Perhatian perlu dibahagi, Cuma jgn sampai kita lupa priority nye. Jgn abaikan perasaan pasangan.

Cherish every moment together

Susahkan nak cari masa utk berdua kalau x de maid mcm saya.. what to do? Setiap plan we will include our kids , even sometimes it really stressfull.  Hargai masa bersama , susah senang bersama, insyaallah relationship will be stronger

Mcm kaunselor pulak.. Ini juga ingatan utk diri saya sendiri juga.

To dearest friend.. (u know who u r)

.. please rethink, takes your time, focus on the good times

kids

Referring to the current event

Our side of the stories

I always teach my kids to avoid confrontation. if others want to hurt you, stay away from them. Its works for Emma. Several occasion other kids trying to be mean , being unkind, she listen to me and leave them.

But its different with hafiy, ours strong will son .Mula mula, die ikut ckp mama, bile ade budak pukul / tolak die, die akan menangis dtg kat mama, mama akan pujuk2, then jauhi mereka2 itu.. Papa pulak x setuju,  Hafiy should learn to defend himself, as boys plays a bit rough and we will not always be around to protect him. So papa said “ kalau ade org buat afiy, afiy boleh balas balik” wah! A permission that make hafiy put a big smile,,,

The situation

@ Giant hypermarket playground.. (berlaku x sampai 1 minit)

Hafiy cuba utk panjat moto ni, tapi dlm mase yg sama seorg budak lelaki (5thn) tgh main jgk. Bila hafiy hulurkan tgn utk naik keatas, budak tu pijak tgn kanan hafiy beberapa kali utk halang hafiy dari naik. So hafiy pun cubit kaki budak tu . budak tu pulak turun utk balas balik. Bile budak tu hulur tgn nak pukul hafiy gigit tgn die dulu.. lebam..

So how?

As a parents, kami pun mintak maaf kpd bapa budak tu sbb kecederaan tu. Sgt kesal atas perbuatan anak kami.. very very sorry..

*papa bangga sbb hafiy berusaha to defend himself

we love you!